Quote Originally Posted by Sometimes Steffi View Post
I know my lying is bad, and I'm trying to get past it. But you heard MandyGG; she'd prefer that it was an affair.

Some GG have less issues with the dressing than with the lying. My wife has more issues with the dressing.

Not to shift blame, but if my wife was more understanding about it, I could be more honest without fear of reprisals.
You are right, we would rather it be an affair because it means that it could end, and crossdressing is a lifetime commitment on the spouse. But, what you are failing to remember is that you are NOT having an affair, you are crossdressing, and when she DOES find out.... because she will!.... she is going to mad at you for lying about it! Then you are right back to square one!