Harsh is relative.... She's 100% harsh, 1% of the time.... Overall its really not that bad.... But trust isn't something you can weight average... Kind of like breathing... If you breath 23 hours and 55 minutes a day that's a great average but at the end of the day your still dead! Lol.
And even though I wish it was better.... I'm fine with it... My fault its this way and I'll live with what ever consequences there are.... It could be a lot worse. We've seen that here time and time again...