Quote Originally Posted by Kaz View Post
All I can say is good luck... the stats aren't good, but the piece of mind may be... I just think we are all damned! Or was that doomed? xx

It's true - the best that most of us ever achieve from our SO is a grudging tolerance. If you don't set your sights higher than that then you are unlikely to be disappointed.

I'm not going to knock the peace of mind bit. IMHO that can be a positive thing and, providing that your SO isn't pressurised in any way, can actually improve your relationship simply because of the stress relief. Well, it's a theory anyway and it seems to be working for us.