Quote Originally Posted by Jonianne View Post
Even more courageous than "diving in with little or no fear", is to dive in when you are TERRIFIED.
It has nothing to do with courage. It's all about understanding our place in the world and deciding to take those fateful steps. The difference back when I first ventured out is that I was naive and as such, I simply did it and it happened that I didn't over-think it so much. These days, with all of the information available on the internet and tales from those of us who have come before, things should be much easier...and safer, yet there are still many who either over-think things or do not pay attention when it comes to advice about safety concerns.

Quote Originally Posted by RainyNightGirl View Post
Ladies, I sympathise with Crossfire but I must admit I do not feel comfortable being out at that time. I am so keen to go out en-femme, however I am probably thinking best place is a shopping mall evening time on a quiet day. But I also think I need to practise walking some distance in heels before I do. Any suggestions?

Thank you
Natasha
Yes, one word...flats!