Hello Marie
Welcome to forum, hopefully we can put your heart at ease with some of the responses that some of us give you. As I myself am struggling with telling my wife and find its such a heavy burden on my heart keeping secrets from her. Though,I feel if I tell her that she would feel that Im trying to steal some place of hers in our relationship.(she-jane, I-tarzan).As if I want some of Jane for my self and she'll feel that she cant provide that in our relationship. Do you feel(being a GG in a relationship) that may be an issue? Thank you for joining and best of luck to and your husband.

Thera