I'm young an have no childeren but, I've decided If I'm ever to be with somone for the rest of my life an have kids that they will know all parts of me including crossdressing. I don't want to be with someone who can't accept me. An not telling my kids is the same to me as saying "It's shameful an wrong" I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not. good luck to you. Wish I had this type of experience to give advice.
