I it really fair to your wife to tell her friend without her knowing?
I never even thought of it that way. My reply {Is life fair to the average Crossdresser?} Is it unfair to not tell the truth sometimes. I have known Kathy for over 20 years !~!!
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.