BrandyJ,
We have seen each other several times thoughout the week. So we have been on about a dozen or so dates. I agree that I don't think I want to let her in on this without knowing that she is someone that I would want to be with long term. I am looking for long term, but I have to know that she is one for a possible long term. I agree that it probably is still too early to figure that out.
I like the idea of putting out the feelers and seeing how she responds to some hypothetical situations. Like.,.. Did you ever consider dating (her bi friend). Or would you? I think those could be some good indicators prior to having a heart to heart about my femm secret. I really haven't given her many hints that there is a femm side to me yet. I don't shave my legs in the summer, and I haven't pierced my ears yet (would love to someday). So... I'll keep my feelers out for a little while more.
I also have to agree that I don't want to wait too long. I don't think a couple of months (4-6 months) would be too long.
GREAT ADVICE! I love all of the advice you can get in this forum. I would truly be lost without all of you!
