First of all we do not find you a threat, geez why would we.
For a lot of women they only know about crossdressers from how society views you ie all cders are gay, they don't understand the ins and outs of what a crossdresser is and don't bother to find out and educate themselves about the community. For those who do, the internet is a poor source of information due to it being linked to porn. Of course there is those who do try but still cannot come to terms with this, and that is fine we can't all be the same, but at least those women tried.