Having just spent two night son the town, I don't think women hate us. Friday night I was invited to join a bachelorette party with 10 very lovely women. They treated me wonderfully. Last night several women sat next to me and talked to me. Seems if we were hated that would not have happened

I have never seen a woman who hated me when I was dressed. Some express their concern? that I can wear something they don't think they can. They suggest changing little things. Some ask where I shop. Two have asked if they can watch me get ready. A few have asked if they could go with me when I go out.

I should say that some have said they hated me because I was tall, or had nice legs or my skin was nice. But I don't think they really "hated" me.

I think you are confusing disapproval for hate. Why do they disapprove? Mostly lack of understanding