Why do women dislike crossdressers?

[Silentpartner GG SO]

I don't understand why a woman would not be romantically attracted when we are in guy mode, especially when they don't see us dressed! Just because they know they want nothing to do with us. So, women really are mean and judgmental. Yea, most GG will be good friends, but i still don't understand just because they know we do this and never seen us as a girl, they still wont like us as lovers?

Have you actually read all the replies to this thread????

We are not mean and judgmental! ffs! you sure know how to get someones back up - I'm hardly surprised that you cant find a girlfriend if this is your attitude towards women - your statement has p*ssed me off for sure!

the truth of the matter is, a lot of women dont find the idea of a guy in a dress, forms, wig and make-up a sexual turn-on and there's little chance of getting romantically involved with a person who doesnt find you sexually attractive. Add to that a rotten personality, a bad or negative attitude and a big fat chip on your shoulder and you've got a total non-starter in the relationship stakes.

[jsunic_1978]

I get out of this, if I'm just looking for a GG shopping buddy, Ill tell her. If I'm looking for a girlfriend, Ill keep it to my self. Personally, I'm just upfront anyhow so I don't have to hide. This is probably selfish, but I can't miss what I don't have? right? God bless all those for hiding their CDing from their lovers all of these years and being patient and taking the risk by telling her and these women still stand by most that have came out. Im learning to, if I offend anyone, sorry, and I cant be a people please neither. I still cant understand why a woman wont be romantically involved just because she knows and has never seen the man in women s clothes

and this is something I just do some weekends now and then once in a while and I have noticed in my experience, most women are not willing to give me the chance in which I can curve, bend this a little. I have a lot of guy friends. some of them know and don't even think twice, nor think im weird and most of them are straight! They just don't want to see me dressed and I respect that. Women however that would like more than just a shopping buddy don't give me the same benefit. I have some female FRIENDS thats all.

[ReineD]

I still cant understand why a woman wont be romantically involved just because she knows and has never seen the man in women s clothes

It's because most women's first thoughts, on being told of the CDing, are "Is he gay? Does he want to become a woman? WILL he want to become a woman? Does he do this because of fetish and will I be enough for him?"

Most of us do not grow up knowing CDers, and we really know very little about it other than what we see in the popular media.

[jsunic_1978]

thanks everyone. I really need to learn how to inner act more with women, get some hobbies and things of interest to most people and not force my self. Maybe telling a girl i CD is just the same as saying lets have sex right off the bat?

[jsunic_1978]

I apologize to the GGs on here I may have offended. I really am trying to balance, educate my self more and get rid of this chip on my shoulder I cant have my cake and eat it to I guess. I just have to only tell women I only want shopping buddies with. The more friends I aqquier, maybe something will develop as They get to know me as a guy to and not push the issue and curve this some.