I am going to echo Brandy and Raychel. Make it somewhere very private and your place or her's fits that to a tee. It is a lot easier to talk through things if there are no thoughts of others watching you. It may be paranoid type thoughts, but they are thoughts that happen. And it is always easier to talk through the most personal of feelings when you aren't worried about others listening in.
Good for you for doing this. I wish you the best!
