Just be very, very careful unless you want to be outed. Most people cannot keep secrets, especially if they think it's no big deal themselves. I decided to tell a coworker who is gay and was quiet about it for a very long time, so I felt I could confide in her, we had been sort of friendly for years. WRONG. within a week, she opens her yap about whether I found something in a VS catalog appealing enough to go and try on. I shoot her dagger eyes quickly so she knows she made a mistake and she understands right away, but the damage could have already been done...until I say 'Yeah, I'd like to try on every girl on page 12'. Heads turn.....I think I got away with it.....not sure, but it's the second time it's happened. Makes me wonder why I trust anyone at all. I should just keep my friggin' mouth shut.