Jee whiz! I just logged on and read all your responses. Thank you all for putting in your opinion. Now here's mine:
For me, being a dude makes me feel like a lot of you ladies have put it. Just right.
Being a guy means having courage, a desire to protect but the capacity to love. It means power and confidence. Class and courtesy with a tad bit of swagger. (ok maybe a lot of swagger) It means low maintenance mornings lol. The competition is seen as real and not just cute.
I'm aware that not all those characteristics are reserved for males, but it's just what I give to males.
I don't know. It just makes me feel right. Like coming home after a long trip. Just comfortable and correct.