Amy, u have a wonderful attitude about this! Many guys would beg, hang around, drive the girl crazy just because she wants to remain friends! However, u clearly see what she means. It's over! And, she's just being nice! I know folks that have gone from being friends to lovers, but NEVER the other way around!

Here's something u MAY NOT KNOW! I'll bet your dressing WASN'T the deal breaker! Rather, it was the straw that broke the camel's back. As u so aptly stated! Meaning there were LOT'S of other issues that worried her BEFORE she found out about your CDing!

When it's not rite, it's simply NOT RITE! And, no amount of unilateral effort by ONE PARTY in a relationship will make it work!

U and her BOTH seem very mature! I think you'll go on to have happy, successful lives! Keep in touch with her! See if I'm rite!?