From what I've heard (from legends and lore), going to a gay club en femme attracts lots of female attention... the good kind, I mean. Maybe you can meet that new person dressed so that it isn't even an issue from the first moment of the relationship. That is to say, unless she expects you to present female all the time, and you don't, and then she is like "What happened to dressing as a woman? I don't want a man who isn't a woman!"
You know what? Relationships are really hard!
