Quote Originally Posted by Klaire Larnia View Post
Sorry to cast a negative aspect but if it was a case of wearing female clothes she may have been able to handle that. That would be the equivalent of her wearing your clothes which you rightly say would not be an issue. But you (by all accounts) present as a female and act accordingly. I think that is where her issue may have laid. It is not double standards, but just that you (and I am not criticising you here) have taken it a step beyond just wearing female clothes to wanting to appear and act female. That could be her issue, not the dressing.

I know a lot of people won't like me for saying that, but it what I think and it is worth considering.
I for one like that you were willing to put that out there. I agree with you! It is not the same. I was venting a bit. It really doesn't even have anything to do with why she broke up with me. It is more because she can't see herself being with a woman. But I still think there is a double standard here. Imagine a guy wearing a dress who wasn't trying to pass. It wouldn't go well for the poor fella. In fact it wouldn't be very safe either.