Quote Originally Posted by Aprilrain View Post
I think you have done enough. You do not need to sacrifice yourself to save him. If you're not into it you're not into it, tell him that before you build up a resentment. It's OK to have boundaries
Hi Hisboo,

I, too, am the girlfriend of a CD.

1. Be very, very glad that he is telling you early in the relationship. You still have options and are not tied to him by children, shared assets or joint debt.

2. The dressing will not stop, it will escalate over time, either in frequency or in completeness (full outfits versus just panties)

3. There is a very strong probability that he will want to either dress full time or actually get hormones/surgery within 10-20 years.

4. When circumstances outside his control prevent him from dressing as planned (last minute work assignment, sick child, or unexpected visitor on evening) he will be veryfrustrated and his behavior will reflect that. At best he will be whiny or cranky. As his frustration escalates (unexpected weekend guests followed by sick child then need for overtime to catch up at work while out with the sick child) he may get very angry and verbally abusive, much like an alcoholic when he can't get to a drink.

5. His femme behavior will escalate along with the frequency/completeness of his dressing. In fact, it will reach a point when he won't need to be dressed in order for you to recognize that "she" is there and not "he".

6. He will lie to you, at some point, either directly, through omission or through partial truths, about his crossdrssing activity.

That said, Aprilrain put it best. Define what you need from this relationship. Establish borders based on those needs. Always take care of yourself. Never put yourself in a position where you feel you "can't" leave the relationship.

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