Hmm, jealousy. Maybe I'm an odd duck, but I've only been jealous of the women that my SO, um, admired when we were out somewhere together if I thought that she was developing a crush on them :p Even then I wasn't jealous of these women, I was more annoyed with my SO. lol
To be honest, it took me a while to figure out my SO's motive for admiring these women and they weren't the same motives that propel other men/(women) to have a double take. So all is good now. :D
I see women all the time who are younger than me and beautiful, and it doesn't occur to me to want to look like them. That's because I know that after the first impression, once you get to know someone (no matter the gender), it is their inner self that colors how others perceive them more than their appearance. I've spoken to gorgeous women who really didn't have much to say or who maybe had rather negative personality traits, and I've spoken to beautiful, kind, and intelligent women who would never win any beauty contests. I'd much rather spend time with a beautiful soul.
I know this is trite, but beauty really is much more than skin deep.
