I find myself falling between two camps (no pun intended)
On the one hand, I have had full sex with 3 men in my life and, if the right circumstance (for me) came along, I would do so again. But, on the whole I prefer the female form. So, does that classify me as bi-sexual?
On the other, I like to wear feminine clothing - it makes me feel sexy. I suppose one might refer to that as a form of sexual gratification.
I'm not bothered by the whole cross dressing effected by some members (many of whom I think look very attractive). But I do like to wear skirts (not "man skirts"), tights/stockings, underwear and high heels. And I do so in public, at every opportunity - although I have yet to pluck up the courage to travel by plane so dressed (I'll get there)
As an aside, my wife knows and accepts that I have had sex with a man (well, she had sex with him as well)... but doesn't like my wearing feminine clothing.
As with Anita_2, I think my cd is in one part fetish of women.
I'm just thankful for the opportunity to discuss this with other people who find themselves similarly ostracised.