Quote Originally Posted by Marleena View Post
I'm not sure whether dressing feminine triggers feelings of wanting sex as a female as a form of validation or not. It is a very interesting concept though.
It's not one size fits all. Some seek feminine validation, others have a real attraction to men, and some people may experience both.

The reason for wanting to determine one's motives is to guard against making mistakes when getting into relationships with others. If both partners expect the same thing (self-focus vs. other-focus), then it's not a problem.