Your story is confusing as someone else pointed out. But if I understand this right. You say your wife is broke, yet has some casino dollars. I assume this means chips or something other then cash. You complain that she is broke??? This is your wife??? That to me means you are broke too. Yet you go get your nails done??? Kind of an extravagant expense if you and your wife are broke. Not to mention the expense to drive to a casino. And perhaps a drink or two and spend some extra money on gambling? She told you to go to the casino??? Doesn't sound like you protested to much. Sounds like she could have said that in a way t hope you'd stay home and spend time with her. And if she didn't sleep and drank as much as you say, there is no way I would have left her alone. With all this drama, you found it important to tell us what color polish you had on and that no one made comments about it, only stares? How is this important with what's going on between you and your wife? At this point I'd sure like to hear your wife's version of the night. I would guess it's very different from yours. She sounds like she is lonely and neglected and that she threw all the heels and the wig in frustration because you seem to care more about your CD lifestyle then you care about her. I feel sorry for her. Then you add: Add another bottle to the mix throw in a healthy dose of PMS she is broke but using her credit card like a drunken sailor Not looking for a PITTY PARTY HERE Just like Friday said The FACTS only the FACTS This does not seem like a marriage or even a partnership the way you say she's broke, but I guess you're not?
From what I read and the confusing way you wrote it, I sense some serious selfishness on your part. I'd say that what tomorrow brings is not good. Sounds like her drinking is out of frustration over your dressing and leaving her alone. So tomorrow might find you the one that's alone. No, you won't get any pity from me on this one. Your wife gets my pity. Sorry, but I sense her drinking is largely due to you and your neglect of her and making your girly time more important in your life then your wife is. Maybe you can make more sense and clear up the facts and I'd change my mind about how I read this sad story about your wife's coping with you and your dressing.
I have been guilty of some of what I'm seeing going on, so I speak from my hard lessons learned. You need to take a good hard long look in the mirror and see what might be the root problem. I just find it hard to put it all on your wife.