As a woman, you shouldn't take this personally. This is to do with us, nothing at all with you.
That's kind if what gets me feeling the way Doormat is - that you're not looking at women to take them seriously as individual humans but obsessing over small, superficial details. It's all about turning women into an object to spin around and admire. Worse, you're not even objectifying her as a human - but as a clothes rack, an object that is usually inanimate.