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    Duchess of Eyeliner Erica2Sweet's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorothy159 View Post
    ...How can I convince her that crossdressing is really nothing more than wanting more clothing options?...
    Because that's not true. There's much more to it than that. The clothes are merely tangibles. There's ALWAYS much more going on internally regarding the topic of non-birth gender expression. If denial is preventing you from seeing that, then by all means begin by dealing with the denial. To be happy and live a fulfilled life, you will need to begin to acquire a reasonably accurate picture of why you need to express yourself this way.

    The truth is that it's not harmless. Peruse these boards and see what happens when men mishandle their crossdressing and put it higher on their list of priorities than the position their loved ones occupy. In these types of instances the desire for crossdressing is nothing short of a relationship killer.

    You will eventually need to have an honest, open discussion with your girlfriend where you place before her all the feelings you feel regarding your gender exploration. You will also need to listen to her when she expresses how she feels about having an SO that engages in this. When its all been said and heard, you both will be faced with the task of deciding whether or not you're actually compatible in life as partners. I mention this because I'm of the opinion that, if she's not fully accepting of your gender flux, then you two simply are not compatible as life partners, and essentially would just be forcing a square peg in to a round hole...
    Last edited by Erica2Sweet; 10-22-2012 at 07:42 AM.

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