How Do I Convince My Girlfriend that Crossdressing is Harmless?

[ReineD]

The number of women who are happy to remain in a relationship with a crossdresser or MTF transsexual who wants to "feel pretty" is rather small, so it's unlikely you're going to get the OK to continue.

Just want to say, although both CDers & TSs would rather be pretty than not, there is a huge difference between the two. CDers (or TGs) do not wish to eradicate their biological male selves. TSs do.

And so hetero women in general are more open to CDers. It takes a very special hetero woman to become willing to live as a lesbian, though.

Are you verbally or physically abusive? Do you cheat? Do you spend your weekends out with the boys? Gambling, drinking, drugs etc.?

You make it sound as if being a CDer makes someone immune to this, and if a woman is not in a relationship with a CDer, she will be abused. You need to consider that there are CDers who are abusive, who cheat, and who are compulsive gamblers, shoppers, drinkers, or druggers. Just as there are non-CDers who are not.