Ryan, look up the term bigender in Google. Although I don't switch sexual preference (and most don't from what I can tell), how you describe yourself is pretty consistent with this form of being transgender. I've made a couple posts on it before if you search my post history.
And yes,I live with my girlfriend and her son, who accept both sides of me.
Side tangent. I picked up the son in boy mode from school yesterday and he said, "Mike, I saw Kae at school today!"
I said.. "I was at work all day, I'd think I'd know if I was up here."
He said, "No! There was a woman who looked JUST like you. I was starting at her and she thought I was crazy. She even had the purple streaks in her hair. (referring to my black and purple wig). I thought it was really neat!"
So yes, people will love you and where it comes from will sometimes surprise you.