One question for a comparison here. Jsunic you appear to be dressed as a guy in girl clothes, presenting as a guy. Celeste, do you refer to your experiences as dressed enfemme, presenting female. i suspect Kimberly is referring to being enfemme, and presenting female. In my opinion the ambiguous presentation is what confuses people and makes them more uncomfortable than a pure female presentation. One they understand more than the other. That does not detract from your statement that even this should be accepted, but I fear it is just harder.
Barbara