What a bummer. On both counts but more so on the second one with the friend. I don't see why it wouldn't be ok but apparently her brainwashing of what is right and wrong has been very good. It's halloween, I don't see why it would be wrong but I certainly wouldn't confide in her anytime soon if ever.

It's funny because the people we think will be the most accepting sometimes turns out they are the least. I told a few people I was dressing for halloween and they all dared me to, little do they know that I did