I wouldn't worry as a matter of fact I would be glad it happened like it did. The friend has only let you know where she stands on CDing or the like. What's the problem? Many of us live with a spouse or SO that feels the same way. We have friends that we know are not open to our interest and lifestyle, yet we consider them friends and even close friends. Then we have family that we sure can't pick but with the same feelings as she shared with you. No, instead of being offended by or even turnned off to being friends you should take this as a possitive learnning experiance and be glad you learned that she is not in a like mind or open to CDing. That simple.