Hey Laura.
Yeah, it is a big step. It is easier if you take the time to know the first man you are going to be with. I knew the person I was with the first time for over a year. We were good friends before anything happened. Even now, I take my time getting to know someone first to get a vibe about them. I have no time for idiots and will not stand to be disrespected in the least. Any man who wants more than friendship from me has to prove he is kind and gentle and safe.
