I just wanna be me. This is obviously a hot topic. But I'm with the OP on this. I still have my goatee. I would shave it off but the SO likes it. And I've never tried wigs or make-up but I'm not against it and want to some day. While the thought of passing and being treated as a woman in public is very intoxicating, I just wanna be me. If that means wearing a cute top, and a skirt with my nails done and some accessories with no make-up or wig, then that's what I want.
Yes the public gets freaky about it. I find that they perceive me as:
1. a total loon
2. so effing rich I don't care what they think
3. I know something they don't.
And in each of these cases, I get a lot of respect because you don't want to mess with any of the three.
I like where you're going with this underdresser. You do what you want and everyone else can go stick their head in the sand. ^_^