It is up to us to create a society that doesn't have anxiety over people who cross gender boundaries by getting out there and wearing what we want to wear. That is how women gained the acceptance to wear masculine clothing and accessories. They just started doing it years ago. I believe that the best way to accomplish this is to wear feminine items in male mode. Start slowly by wearing items such as women's shoes, nail polish, capri pants, etc in male mode. This form of presentation is analogous to women wearing rugged hiking/combat boots, flannel shirts, and other male items that women wear everyday. The only way to achieve acceptance is by pushing the envelope.