I'm probably going to get hammered for this, but I'm a big girl (no pun intended, well actually it is a pretty good pun), so go ahead and let me have it. I've been dressing for years; it is a complete secret from all my family; one of these days I might regret it; but for now, I have no intention of revealing this part of me to anyone who is related to me, especially my wife. I can live with the secret much easier than I could live with the aftermath of "coming clean" with some really wonderful people who would not understand on any level. But that's just me.
Who among us does not have secrets? If you think you are totally transparent, you are only fooling yourself.
