But don't you think that IF you were a male who slowly ads feminine touches too his apperance is really transitioning ? Why tell the world ? Just do it an slowly let them get used to it an wouldn't it be easier to fall into place after a little lee way ? An for the people ,,Places an Things ,,Don't you think that you could or would change them first or a the very least try an change them for the better ,,As far as job an friends an Haunts ,, Me being OCD an planning lots of stuff ahead I made changes long before I changed . So maybe instead of jumping in ya get a little toe wet before you dive in head first ? Ease your way into the water so maybe you won't make to big of a splash ? Just a thought !