"There are two types of being out: to everyone you know, or to strangers only. Which "out" do you mean?"
exactly!! i was telling this to my wife/roomate who came out as gay at the same i time i came out as a crossdresser. She expected me to be loud and proud, but as i told her, outting urself is different for everyone! i dont want everybody to know, just those close to me. i dont even want my family to know, as they live 2000 miles away and my dressing doesnt concern them.
