Getting out in 2013

[Karli]

Thank you for the feedback. It's a big step so that's why I was wanting to know what it was like for others. I find the thought of even walking from say a parking lot to a bar a bit intimidating which is why I was wondering if having someone with you might make it easier. Also if you are in a bar I feel it might be a bit scary to be alone. Those who have done this, is this about right that first time? I'm sure if you have experience it is routine. But what about a first time out. How do you take that step?

[Jenniferathome]

...Also if you are in a bar I feel it might be a bit scary to be alone. Those who have done this, is this about right that first time? I'm sure if you have experience it is routine. But what about a first time out. How do you take that step?

Karli, I would not recommend going to a bar, alone. Here's why: think like a guy. What do you do when you see any woman enter a bar? You look. Scrutiny will be higher. Drunk men will look even longer. If you are in a gay bar, you may get hit on. If you are up for a drink or dinner, go to a small bistro. It won't be a pick up place. I highly recommend going to a shopping mall for your first outing alone. It is easier to blend there, if you care about that.

Good luck

[Karli]

Thanks for the encouragement. I was wondering if you thought a girl out having dinner alone might seem unusual or off. That's a bit why I thought a bar that is accepting might be the way to get out that first time.