Hi AAlynn,
You do sound quite confident and very keen on dressing full time. If it is just the voice you are concerned about, I happen to have been watching videos and practicing my own femme voice last evening after coming across a few videos. I found this short one which demontrates techniques for femme speaking; you may find it helpful as well: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZr7G7wTFaQ.
Monica