Quote Originally Posted by ReineD
Ah. Jock straps are denied to me. I still don't want 'em.
[SIZE="2"]Ha. Ha.

I apologize for the inadequate response to your WHY? Question – I dislike “posting on the fly.” There are many things that are attractive, or become attractive, because a male isn’t supposed to have them, or do them, or admire them. Being a GG, how can you appreciate how a male feels about forbidden things? I could very well fold ideas about sexual practices, or religion, or any of a number of taboo topics into this discussion, and easily derail the topic, simply because certain subjects are denied to us on this forum. There are many examples I could give about a male being attracted to something forbidden – just trying to “keep things clean,” in this instance, OK? In the case of your non-beloved jockstraps, you’re not missing anything – shall I give you a list of female things I can do without or don’t particularly care for? That would be a list of indeterminable length…

Meanwhile, your WHY? response just verifies what I already stated in the OP – women, or GG’s if you prefer, are baffled if a man says, “I like to wear women’s clothes.” It’s not an easy thing to explain, which is the very thing I was trying to get across in the OP. Surely it can’t be THAT simple, correct? Well, it IS that simple, in many instances, to the point that any further explanation is unnecessary or injurious. I mean, I like ice cream – do I have to explain why? It’s creamy, sweet, and cold, and it makes me feel good, OK? I LOVE how that dress looks – hey, I can actually WEAR it, and see how it feels. Luckily I’m not a slave to the “correct” M/F gender dynamic that keeps someone (a male, in this case) from trying something forbidden by society. Some things, by their very nature, require imagination…

It’s too bad that women are baffled by ideas that should be simple to understand, but I think they are trying their best to keep things on the rails, moving forward, to a predetermined result, and their innate bafflement feeds into this – they are the sentinels of societal precepts, and anything that rocks the boat is suspect. Also, I think sensuality is the province of women, and we MtF crossdressers must represent a breach of the “borders” that females have constructed around them. Really, honestly, and with all due sincerity, “I just like to wear women’s clothes.” It’s nothing to worry about, and my aim is NOT to keep women endlessly confused…
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…women are, indeed, sensual.
[SIZE="2"]I agree. I learned all about sensuality from women. The clothes certainly help… [/SIZE]