Don't take it personal, it's just that this site has a rather large membership and the majorty has kinda been allowed to rule, as that is how such things tend to go.
One would think that after 47(ish) posts and a month and change in time spent here, you'd have gotten the feel for things and not let it bother you?
Genderless names like yours can be difficult to guage.
It's up to you tho, perhaps you should look at how comfortable you really are here and see if you might not be a good fit?
