She hasn't asked about a transition or brought it up. Just that she is becoming more attracted to Kim. I think it is in a physical way but there are a few little emotional aspects too. The only reason, (and I have spoken to my friend about this part) I would consider transitioning is because I think I would be happier living as a woman. And if my SO was happy about that too then she would get what I think she wants. But I do need to talk to her, mainly about changing her mind later. Because once on that road it is difficult turning back. For both of us.
But Jenn, I didn't even know that was possible. Am I right reading your post that you transitioned and then made a return trip? That can't have been a full transition surely? Hope you don't mind me asking but I can't quite get my head around that.
Now when we spoke the first time I did ask her which she wanted, male or female. I didn't get a proper answer. I think it was just tough for her. So I didn't push it. But I did say that should we go down that path it would mean for a short while she would most likely have to be the main provider. I can't see myself getting a job as Kim right away. It would take time. And I know you have to live full time for a year beforehand. So a transition is off the table for the next few years at least. But I just want to consider everything first. And I hope she will consider it all too.
Hopefully we can have a chat soon. I'll let you all know how it goes when we have.
