Hetero male and female therapists, psychoanalysts, psychiatrists, and all the other freudian trained professionals are clueless about what we face and what we feel.
Lara, just so you know, the two loudest voices in the debate mentioned in this thread, Jack Molay of Crossdreamers and the person who wrote the blog above, are both crossdressers (or TGs or however they may define themselves).
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.