I am really surprised a person that is so well versed would have such confusion and seeming objection to the idea that someone can just like the clothing.
I LIKE THE CLOTHING, and related styles. Period end of subject.
Now, I will add the caveat, I am of a mind that works like both male and female, I am mentally in many ways what my ex stated she was physically. I find the clothing women get to wear to be much "funner" and creative in many ways than male styles. Males styles also are more centered around power of some type (yes I realize the same can be said about female styles as well) and that power is often violent in some way. (not always mind you ).
But, that being said.....why does it matter? Why let this bug you? Does the fact I prefer skirts to pants, and would only transition if I felt it was the only way to make it in life affect you in anyway negatively at all?
That is the important thing that I am realizing more and more. As long as no one is hurt, financially, mentally, or physically, (unless that person is being rotten to others) then it should not bother you.
