[SIZE="2"]The title bothers me...Originally Posted by ReineD
It would have been a LOT better if you had written Questioning: “I like women’s clothes” rather than use the extremely insensitive and hurtful word “debunk.” Your poorly-chosen word, in this instance, infers a desire to discredit MtF crossdressers who like dressing, period. Why would you wish to do that? Pretty much everybody laughs at us, from SO’s, to confused girlfriends, to loved ones (bingo!), to media pundits, to societal watchdogs, to the man (and woman) in the street, so why must you join the chorus of negativity? You’re trifling with us. You’re dealing with us if our feelings were of little importance or worth. Debunk is a word used by people who are unable to see reality from a point of view other than the one they were indoctrinated into from childhood – you’re ridiculing us, in other words, and I fail to see why. An expression like, “I like to wear women’s clothes,” is not some kind of exaggerated claim, it’s a simple statement of fact – there’s nothing to debunk, but you, in your infinite GG wisdom, has to step in and spoil the party. Are we MtF crossdressers bugging you?
You know, they say that truth lies at the bottom of a well. I assume you do not wish to enter that well, go all the way to the bottom, get your feet wet, and SEE the truth, so you prefer to casually peer into the well, take a quick glance, and make up your mind about something. That’s all well and good, but I would expect something a little better from YOU, a moderator (now a debunkerator) on a forum for crossdressers. I know you’re posting here as a member, but I must question your motives. Look – I’m saving you the trouble from having to go down into the well of truth by giving you a simple explanation why some of us crossdress, M to F, and gain pleasure from it. It’s not the ONLY explanation, but it seems to be the least appreciated pronouncement by those who wouldn’t know about such things. I fail to see the logic of your debunking exercise, unless you’re stirring the pot to see who agrees with your assessment – crossDRESSING says it all at times, without any further need for clarification, but why must you "campaign" against simple truths? It’s NOT helping, to say the least…
A smilie for you: :stirthepot: Is that what you want? [/SIZE]
