In short, Marleena, I tend to agree. When it's limited, sure, but when it goes beyond that, it's something else, although I won't say it's "one" thing.Originally Posted by Marleena
I think for a small group here it is just the clothes. When you add fake boobs, makeup and a woman's wig I believe there is more to it. It is a transformation! I see a lot of denial here. I wanted to know why and found there was much more to it for me. I know most Cder's are not TS but there is more to it. We have men here transforming into looking like women and getting extreme pleasure from it but don't question their masculinity or call some transgender.
Not being critical here because I have been there done that.
At the risk of annoying people (and fairly), I do think there's denial, and to answer Reine's original question, I think that's part of it. However, the general rule is one shouldn't "out" other people, as it can have bad results. Not that I'm saying anything about specific people! It's just a general sense. And it's possible there are other causes.
It's also true that it was thought bisexual people were really gay but in denial, so maybe it's not what we think it is; maybe it's something else, whatever those options might be.
However, to those critical of Reine's original question, this is one of the most common questions asked by CD'ers of various forms here. It's an obsession with many. Of course, that's why some are tired of it :P
