I think it's perfectly acceptable to have one person have a different set of reasons than another. It's taboo, it's sexual, women's clothes are nicer, it has to do with power... Take 10 people who call themselves Christians and ask about their beliefs - even if they go to the same church they are likely to disagree on something. Live and let live people. Accept who you are and treat others with kindness. Regardless of the whys - you still have to deal with how it impacts your world. And this GG hates panty hose, wear frilly underthings only for the pleasure of my guy, takes off the bra ASAP, shovels snow, takes out the garbage, will defrost pipes and can tolerate limited conversations about hair and nails before I'm bored to death, btw.
