Male-to-Female crossdressers get NO respect

[KellyJameson]

I think for myself I carry a small measure of resentment for the crossdresser. Not for what they do on the outside but for why and what that implies because I want that for myself.

I would love to have the relationship to clothes that you do because it would than mean that I am not me.

Even if it meant living with the conflict that it causes with the SO or not having a SO because the crossdressing is more important and cannot be compromised on, that would still be a small price to pay to "not be me"

You are a beautiful person and this beauty comes out in your movement toward the feminine beautiful.

This seems like such a natural and healthy thing to do because it comes out of a healthy sensitivity that I often see displayed by men on this forum.

In a way it is not the crossdresser that is disrespected but the sensitive male who finds expression of this sensitivity through crossdressing as movement toward the feminine represented by his own experience, interpretation and understanding of the feminine.

This feminine actually stands outside the gender of women and many woman are not feminine in the way the feminine is expressed by crossdressers because it requires a certain delicacy often lacking in woman.

I wish crossdressers would move out into the world because I think they could fill a void left by woman who have rejected the very thing crossdressers embrace and I think this may be one reason for crossdressing by sensitive men who miss this world that woman have abandoned.

The thought of having a sexual relationship with crossdressing would disgust me. Not because I would experience it as a perversion because from the crossdressers perspective of being a male heterosexual it seems like the must natural thing to do "from my perspective"

It disgusts me because it is a violation of "self" much how a heterosexual would be disgusted by themselves if they engaged in homosexuality.

The implications of what this means for me is transsexuality as "me" so I wish I could experience myself as a sexual object as an expression of male heterosexuality because than I would not be "me"

I do not know if respect is the problem Freddy, so much as people being so absorbed with their own pain that they do not notice the pain of others.