Did crossdressing effect the way you dated growing up?

[noeleena]

Hi,

Accepting that your different had a major aspect that would effect me in how i saw girls & other issues that would effect me through my life. & has done .

I saw girls as sisters not as girlfriends as in boy / girl friends, i was not a boy as would be normal or how i should have been . being intersex changes many issues & details of your life, how your percived was one how to express my self was another. being around boys or men was another, i contended with & still do though not near as much as i have, i.... hated.... being around men & thats from birth, & what happened to Mum & me.

At the time i had few friends of my age , more like i looked after others & helped them . yes i had three friends who i thought would like me for myself as a person not wether i was a boy / girl. how i was seen was not what i was , they would not have understood had they known any way, so no real girlfriends & that i belive was best for me, im over 65 so think back to then.

I was able to get married funny that, never thought i would or could, age 24, yes we have three grownup adults, & 9 grandkids so yes even some of us intersexed can help with haveing children , Jos bore our three. would have been 4 was not to be, .

As a female / male. it can be difficult for other's more so your partner, & was in our case, though we are through that now we are just two single women get on well, for now liveing apart. yet very close, as two sisters friends soul mates with family,
i mean after being to gether for 35 years married & known each other over 38 years, not something you just walk away from i cant any way, Jos means so much to me,

As a point of interest i never thought as a male nore could i , my hormones did work for me as intersexed, & changed or helped in my changes long before takeing any synthic meds, & im counted as a menopusal woman .

...noeleena...