You are making this whole premise way too superficial. It really is quite simple. Women generally want their men to be men. They typically grow up dreaming of their Prince Charming rather than Prince Charming in a ball gown (wouldn't that be Princess Charming???).
It takes a very special woman to be all good with one who is TG on her arm. Yet at the same time I cannot fault any woman who is not willing or able to take that leap.
