The forum ought to start charging by the word!
The reality for some of us is that we love GG's, are friends with GG's, wish we were born GG's, interact with GG's as both men and women, etc. Basically, my reality involves GG's and I have no desire to hide from them or their honest opinions. If we are talking about CD.com, then there is the private GM section that is a "boy's only club." I think there is a reason that this section and the other private sections see much less traffic than the open ones and that reason is that most of us do like to mix it up with GG's, MTF's, and transitioned/transitioning women. This is my real life and I have no desire to hide.
