I can't say I ever felt threatened or insulted or anything like that. When I first found out I thought it was a little odd in an intriguing kind of way and I never had a problem with it. But I can see why other women might, I mean it's not something we see every day and from what I have read many husbands come out after years of being married which would be rather upsetting to find out. But how would you feel if one day your wife or girlfriend told you she wants to put on a fake beard and dress like a guy? I think some men would feel kind of weird about that.